

Both may have orderly classrooms.but which one would a student want to learn in? And which one would likely have students learn most effectively?

Another may reward students for good behavior and the students are made to feel appreciated and inspired. Another example: One teacher may rely on detentions and threat of punishment to keep students in line.While one may get his or her "way" it will not be with the happiness of those around him or her. Typically this will lead to resentment and anger. As an example, controlling other people through threatening behavior, demeanor, or actions will be responding out of coercion more than respect and love.Gandhi demonstrated that power based on love is more effective and permanent than the power gained through threat of punishment.

It does not mean being a doormat or a pushover or one does not stand up for oneself it means building relationships rather than trying to overpower. The healthy alternative is to seek to understand others before attempting change, tolerate peaceful difference, and use persuasion and leadership in a way that inspires others. A controlling approach to relationships will likely keep you in conflict with others. But by doing so-even with the best of intentions-this forcing your will on others takes away the power from others and causes a great imbalance which can lead to anger, hurt, and resentment. Trying to control people is about seeking to impose your will and reality on others. Ceasing to seek power over people and outcomes in your life is the first major step to living peacefully.

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